The following is my contribution to Lois Einhorn’s book, Forgiveness and Child Abuse, Would YOU Forgive (Robert D. Reed Publishers, 2006). I was included because I was Lois’ therapist when her memories surfaced. Others among fifty three contributors include: Mumia Abu-Jamal, Patch Adams, M.D., Edward Asner, Rubin “Hurricane” Carter, Laura Davis, Thomas Eagleton, Albert Ellis, Lynne Finney, Linda Hogan, Daniel Quinn, Pete Seeger, Bernie Siegel, M.D., Gerry Spence, and Kenneth Wapnick. Autographed copies of the book are available at a discount through the author‘s website, http://loiseinhorn.com

Reminiscence: Therapeutic life review with people nearing the end of life.
Early in life, it is important for our emotional health and growth to look forward, planning for the future. As we age, however, it becomes more important to look back and enjoy the finished product. We need to talk over our accumulated experience, reviewing and reminiscing to make sense of it all, and to come to terms with the choices we have made.

This article discusses factors that are not
always associated with successful anger
management in relationships. Couples can be
creative, use humor, and the like. More...

This is an aritcle on anger management, applied
to relationships, starting with younger kids.
It lays the foundation for understanding the
later manifestation of anger with adults.

Most modern families are financially separated, each member is earning and spending his own money separately so money becomes a symbol of control and not sharing it shows a lack of trust in the partner.

This is an article about fighting in
relationships, mostly intimate ones, but also
others, such as business relationships. It
covers why fights start and what personal
characteristics are most likely to contribute to
fighting, but also those that stop it.

This series of articles is the product of twenty-
five years of outpatient psychology practice,
working with couples of all persuasions. What
really undermines relationships is not what is
sold on dating services, but the underlying
dynamics of each partner. This is Part V and
takes the reader through an in-depth
understanding of just what these factors are, how
to work with them and make the relationship shine
again. There are five major steps, beginning
with...