Here’s the dilemma: Your marriage is in serious disarray, you have been meeting with your pastor for months all to no avail.  Everything you know to do has been done and you are at the end of your rope.  You feel a divorce is your next step.  What do you do? For millions of American Christians the only answer to this question was: nothing.  Secular psychology, which often runs counter to your faith, has traditionally been unable to meet the needs of practicing Christians and those with problems that reach beyond their pastor’s capabilities.  But thankfully there is a new trend developing in the mental health field: pastoral counseling.